“But encourage one another daily, as long as it is called ‘Today'” … (Hebrews 3:13)

This summer, my mom’s oldest brother passed away. My uncle was a big part of my life growing up and when I became an adult. In fact, I can’t remember a time when he wasn’t around. He and my aunt lived just down the street from us. I spent countless hours at their house playing with my cousins. When I visited my grandma, he would often pop in while I was there. He told the funniest stories, and he always had a joke. My grandma’s laughter would ring out, and it was so contagious that even if I didn’t understand the joke, I would laugh along too.

One of my favorite memories of my uncle comes from a very difficult season in my life. When I was going through my divorce, I reached out to him because I needed someone to talk to. Not only was he my uncle, but he was also my pastor. He listened with kindness, offered encouragement, and reminded me that I still had something to contribute.

At the time, he was preaching at a small Baptist church in my hometown. I told him I wanted to become more involved but wasn’t sure where I fit or how I could help in such a small congregation. He told me the church needed a treasurer and encouraged me to let my name be considered. When the members met to vote, he spoke so highly of me, expressing his confidence in my abilities and encouraging the congregation to support me. His words of encouragement, and their vote of confidence, meant more to me than any of them probably realized.

Not long afterward, I shared with him that I wanted to teach but was having trouble finding a job due to my lack of experience. Once again, he encouraged me, suggesting that I lead a Bible study and occasionally teach Sunday school. With his encouragement, I led my first Bible study on the book of John. I still have fond memories of those classes.

Looking back, I realize that his encouragement and willingness to open those doors helped me find purpose, healing, and a place to serve during one of the hardest times in my life. I will always be grateful for the kindness, confidence, and support my uncle showed me, and I hope I can pass this same kindness along to others.

Dear Lord, thank you for putting my uncle in my life and for the good memories. Please help me to be an encouragement and support to others. Amen.