“Commit to the Lord whatever you do, and he will establish your plans” (Prov 16:3).

As the coronavirus (COVID-19) continues to spread, we practice social distancing. This means businesses and schools have closed, and people are working remotely. For such a busy, social culture, this type of restriction can cause us to feel isolated and alone. We aren’t able to meet our friends in person for coffee or dinner, and we may not see our coworkers for a while.

Over three years ago, I began working from home when I decided to focus on my editing business full time. I thought it would be easy since I’m an introvert, but I didn’t realize how lonely it could be.

Remember, even though it may seem that you’re alone, you’re not. We are all in this together. And perhaps you are literally not alone. You may be surrounded by your family, or your barking dog or clingy cat, all of whom are not used to being cooped up either.

I don’t have kids, so I can’t speak to what it’s like having them around all day. But I do have a dog who demands walks and treats and barks at inappropriate times. I’m no expert, but if you’re working from home like I am, here are four tips to help you adjust.

Create routines.

While scheduling may be the bane of your existence, it’s more important now than ever. You’ll need to establish new routines that fit both your schedule and that of your family. If you’re married, talk to your spouse about splitting the duties so that you both have time to devote to your work and your family.

Blocking time is a great productivity tool, and it works wonders when it’s difficult to focus. Basically, you choose a set amount of time, say thirty minutes or an hour, and focus on the task at hand. During this time, you don’t check email or social media. You can block specific times during the day to check these things.

Have a dedicated workspace.

When I first started working from home, I worked from anywhere that was comfortable—the couch, my recliner, the bed. After a few months, I noticed I had no boundary between my work life and home life. I have an extra bedroom, so I set up an office in there. Because I like sunlight, I arranged my laptop in front of a window. I need space to edit manuscripts, so I added a table that doubles as my Bible study area. For a personal touch, I set out a picture of Lilly. I work exclusively from my office space now.

With the coronavirus keeping everyone home, you may find it difficult and stressful to work while there are other people at home. I would encourage you to find a space in your home, even if it’s just a small corner, to set up your workstation. If this area has a door, that’s even better. You can use post-it notes or color-coded door hangers to let your family know when it’s okay to interrupt and when you need to be left alone.

Connect with others.

Just because we’re limiting face-to-face contact doesn’t mean that we have to isolate ourselves. Cabin fever can set in when you work remotely. Consider going for a walk or visiting a nearby drive thru to limit exposure. Getting out in nature can do wonders for your mental health. If you have kids, consider playing outside in the yard.

Reach out to friends, family, and coworkers through digital means. Are you a part of a group that can meet virtually right now? Both my critique group and my women’s group from church is considering using Zoom for our once-weekly meetings.

Be kind.

Luke 6:31 instructs us to “Do to others as you would have them do to you.” At times, we need to be reminded to be kind to each other. When we’re around others for an extended period, our human nature takes over. We may lose our tempers and take out frustrations on those closest to us. We often treat those closest to us with more disdain than we would a stranger. Be aware of your actions and work to maintain healthy boundaries. When you need to step away to regroup, have a signal ready that you can give your partner or your kids, or in my case, the dog. I grab Lilly’s leash, and we go outside for a walk. It helps both of us.

To make it through this season with your sanity intact, you need to create a system that works for you and your household. As we all adjust, we can work together to get through this even though we’re apart.

What tips would you add?

Dear Jesus, you know the challenges we’re facing. From working from home to childcare to finances, this situation is putting a strain on us all. Show us how to work and behave in our new environment. Amen.